Kaitlyn Whitmer Dula

September 13, 1991 – April 3, 2024

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Kaitlyn Whitmer Dula, a cherished daughter, sister, wife, and mother, who left us peacefully surrounded by her loved ones on April 3, 2024. Born on September 13, 1991, Kaitlyn was a beacon of light and joy to all who knew her.

Kaitlyn’s life was a testament to her strength, courage, and unyielding faith. She battled pancreatic cancer with the heart of a warrior, demonstrating immense bravery and resilience that inspired everyone around her. Her journey was one of grace and dignity, filled with moments of love and laughter.

Kaitlyn’s love for her family was boundless. She was a devoted wife to her beloved husband, Christopher Scott Dula, and an adoring mother to her dear son, Tucker Ottis Dula, who was the light of her life. The bond she shared with her parents, Bev and Robin Whitmer, was one of deep love and respect, built on a foundation of shared moments and unwavering support throughout her life and during her courageous battle with cancer.

Kaitlyn was also a cherished sister to Lauren Harbert (Guy Harbert IV) and Kristin Feldman (Scott Feldman). They shared countless memories of laughter, support, and love with Kaitlyn. The joy of sisterhood was further enriched by the presence of Kaitlyn’s nieces and nephews: Sophie, Bodie, Mila, Saylor, and Willow. Each child held a special place in her heart, and she treasured every moment spent with them, instilling love, joy, and laughter in their lives. Kaitlyn’s love and legacy will continue to live on through the tight-knit bond of her family, a testament to the incredible person she was. 

Kaitlyn was also loved by and made countless memories with her mother-in-law, Tina Dula and brother-in-law, Hunter Dula.

In addition to her deep familial bonds, Kaitlyn also shared special friendships that she held dear to heart. She maintained life-long connections with childhood friends, Walker Shively, Korre (Scott) Nikolaidis, and Sara Beach Irving and was blessed with an adult friendship with Randi Hammock, a kindred spirit whose companionship provided laughter, comfort, and unwavering support through the best and most challenging times. These friendships were a treasure, filled with beautiful memories and held close to her heart.

A faithful member of Twin Oaks Baptist Church in Ferrum, VA, Kaitlyn’s spirit and kindness also touched many within her church family. Her commitment to her faith and community was evident in her actions and the love she freely gave to others. Kaitlyn’s legacy is one of compassion, service, and a deep love that enriched the lives of everyone she encountered.

Kaitlyn’s passion extended beyond her family and friends to the volleyball court, where she served as the head coach of the Varsity Volleyball team at Franklin County High School. Her dedication to the sport and her team was unparalleled, inspiring her players with her fierce determination, positive attitude, and profound love for the game. Kaitlyn was not just a coach; she was a mentor, motivator, and role model to her players, instilling in them the values of teamwork, perseverance, and excellence both on and off the court. Her legacy as a coach is marked by the countless lives she touched, having guided her players to achieve their best and creating a lasting impact that extends far beyond the volleyball court.

The family wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude for the overwhelming love and support received from friends, relatives, and the community throughout Kaitlyn’s battle with cancer. Your prayers, kindness, and compassion have been a source of strength and comfort during this difficult time.

We invite you to join us in celebrating Kaitlyn’s life. A visitation will be held at Twin Oaks Baptist Church (2313 Henry Road, Ferrum, VA 24088) on Saturday, April 6, 2024 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. A memorial service will be at the same location the following afternoon, Sunday April 7, 2024 at 3:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Coach Kaitlyn Whitmer Dula Volleyball Scholarship, to continue her legacy of love and support for those who have played volleyball for Franklin County. Checks can be addressed to Franklin County High School with a note that the funds be directed to The Coach Kaitlyn Whitmer Dula Volleyball Scholarship Fund.

Kaitlyn’s light will forever shine in the hearts of those who loved her. Though we mourn her loss, we also celebrate the incredible impact she made on our lives. Her spirit, love, and courage will never be forgotten.

Dear Lord, we are grateful for the life You gave Kaitlyn and for the memories we shall forever keep of our time with her here on Earth. We thank You for sending Your Son to the cross to save us from our sins so that she and all who believe can reside with you in Heaven. It is because of Your love and grace that we know we’ll see her again. Amen.

Arrangements by Flora Funeral Service and Cremation Center, Rocky Mount.